Her Point of View



“What is a house pet? I have no idea!”

A little background would be enlightening; I have never owned a pet besides a few farm pigs and chickens during my earlier days in the village where I was born.  I don’t remember even having the classic chicks or bunny like most would.  Being raised without an animal in the house has made me to consider and maintain that animals do not belong in the house.  In the past I have also been exposed to laid-back pet owners that just reconfirmed my standpoint. 

Then one day I meet someone who changed everything.  The story is quite amusing as I was invited for dinner only to arrive at his house to find this big cat lying on the couch.  So I immediately thought to myself oh s...t if he’s on the couch then it’s very probable that he must lie everywhere, even the bed.   Then the cat rose up to greet me and I was afraid of him as I have not had much interaction with cats.  I see cats in the streets and neighborhoods and they most always avoid me rather than come towards me.  The night was an experience and overall the night went well.  The next day I was thinking “dam its true” nothing is perfect as I thought this guy just might be.  Great, just my luck!  I was truly disappointed that there was a pet in the house and he was so involved with him.
   
Today more than a year on I have since changed my mind.  What made me change my mind you might be asking?  Well as our relationship progressed and as we all lived together I had this certain warmth inside of me that I could not explain and nothing similar to past experience.  My friend was great with the cat and it was interesting to see the communication between them and that such communication was possible with “a cat”.   

I may also say that living with animals and especially the cat is not such a big deal when you have some common coexisting rules.  Finding ways to maintaining a health and clean house is the key.  Hygiene was always an issue and I will say we have found ways to keep things happy for all.  Indeed my friend was the catalyst that has now solidified my admiration for cats and I am thrilled to have a lifelong love affair with these furry critters.  With a second cat that has arrived in our house a whole new chapter begins for me.  I hope this site helps people with similar issues that only seem natural to me today.